ARGUE=PATTERN??

how do you define ARGUE? problems? troubles? yea, it might be the terms in our mind it might appeared.

but, can you think of argue= solution? 

there is some cases, A bring out the issues to be discussed, DISCUSSED. But the words come across to the B's mind are: argue, trouble, many pattern.

"pattern more than badminton", how come you guys ignored the function of argue?
there are a lot of benefits to get from arguing in a relationship:

1. to brings out the problem that trouble each of us so that we can solve it.
2. to show what you care.
3. to give the chances for each other to understand what he or she really want and think.
4. to express the feeling to avoid the explosion of the emotion.
5. to avoid depression.
6. to break an unwanted/ suffered relationship (if nobody is going to settle the issues that has been brought out.)
7. to show how sad you are when he/ she treat you in the way you don't want.
8. and many many many more~

Only the one who care for you, will argue with you.don't ignore all the problems, it will sentence you to death one day. Problems brought out are used to be solved but not kept.

Someone said: they are ruled by the man, and I'm not counted as one of them. 

hmm, what I have to said is that, nobody is ruling who else. I'm lucky because he willing to argue with me patiently, and willing to solve the problem I have mentioned. This is our way in the relationship.

flee from the war isn't the best way to bring the peace, but reaching an agreement for the both party always the best way. =)

so, guys, don't ignore all the problem or question from us. If there is no problem, you are not human. but only there is problem, we have pattern. Therefore, please be considerate when you blame for our pattern.